Celebrating 70 on the Waterfront | Portland Family Photographer

As we age, it seems to me that adult birthdays are pushed to the side; time, organization, or feeling a lack of inspiration all contribute to not making the most of what should be a treasured day. I'm guilty of this myself, finding that the decade celebrations hold the most sway because they feel important. Just something to ponder among the other 5 million things you think about during the week.

But birthdays aren't just for kids. 

We met at Skidmore Fountain, walked through the Saturday Market, laughed, played and took in all the sights Portland has to offer. The honoree is a former civil engineer, so we spent time looking and talking about the bridges of Portland. I learned a lot about the history and making of each bridge we came across on our walk! I love meeting new families and spending enough time with them to truly get to know them, especially when they are happy to share their knowledge and experiences (and know how to have fun!).

The Million Phone Photos (and how to get them into a book) | Your Friendly Portland Family Photographer

I see you.

You're so good at making a picture of your kid covered in spaghetti, or nearly flying off the merry-go-round, and the sunset glowing while puffs of dandelions are blowing on the breeze. These and a million other pictures are stored on your phone's camera, or maybe you've made the next step and have them stored on your computer (good for you if you've done this!).

But what now?

My hard drive is filled with nearly one terabyte of data. WHAT?! I have to sit down and make a concerted effort each month to delete photos that do not make the cut before I transfer them to permanent storage. Folders are made for each day of the month, catalogued into years and sent to multiple back up locations. 

I've learned to make one folder just to document the year. I take my favorite image from the day and place it in my "365" folder. A picture a day that will then go into a photo book or album at the end of the year. These are treasures; little pieces of an entire year that would otherwise be forgotten.

We all are guilty of leaving the hard work of organizing until it feels SO big that we just throw our hands in the air. You're with me on this, right? 

Let's change this narrative, together! There are many companies who offer reasonably priced photo books that you can make directly from your phone, pad, or from Google Photos. Honestly, there's no excuse folks. The industry is making it as simple as possible for all of us to make yearly, if not monthly, photo books. Instagram, Facebook, iPhone, etc...they can all be put into a book in minutes.

Still overwhelmed?

I understand. Do you want soft or hardcover? What type of paper (semi-gloss, pearl, matte) and should it lay-flat or be more like an art book?

Most of these decisions will be based on how hard you (or honestly, your kids) will be on your book over the years. I prefer a hardcover option because I want my kids to not worry about looking through their lives for fear of a delicate book ripping or falling apart.

Chatbooks is a really easy way to create your yearly family, vacation, or whatever the occasion may be, photo book. You have two sizes to choose from and an option for soft or hardcover. You don't have to figure out what paper choice since they only offer one archival option. The price is right, too ($15-30 depending on size 6x6 or 8x8). They even offer a "Photo Book Series" which you set the parameters and books are printed and sent to you without having to do anything...NICE!

Blurb is an excellent company, but their user interface is more complicated and there are many more options. If you are looking for a higher-end photo book, this is one company to research.

Many friends of mine have used MixBook. They are more pricey than Chatbooks, but have more options to choose from if you wish for a variety of papers or a lay-flat option.

There are many more, but these are companies who have shown a solid understanding of their customer's needs and produce a good product. 

Keep in mind...

While these are great for the photos you take of your family, friends, and events, they are not a product I would offer to my clients. I create professional, hand-made albums filled with art; the living moments of your family. My products are meant to last a lifetime!

Whether you hire me to document who you are now and create an amazing album, or use your own images in a consumer based photo book, I urge you to get your life off of the computer, out of the Cloud, and into your hands!

Soundproof rooms are WEIRD- a visit to the audiologist | Portland Family Photography

Over the past two years, Olivia has had abnormal hearing tests at school. When she was in first grade, I chalked it up to a massive cold she was still recovering from. The results were handed to me in one of those flurries of pick up madness, meaning I forgot about it for a couple weeks, lost the paper and found it again; only to lose momentum and not follow up on testing again.

I remember thinking, "She hears just fine. I can whisper at one end of the room and she still looks my direction and rolls her eyes." 

After this year's test, I realized this wasn't just a blip. She had severe hearing loss in her left ear above 2000Hz. I consulted Dr. Google and my dear friend who's daughter wears a hearing aid, sending her pictures of the results. It appeared that this frequency was quite high and I had this little thought that, "well, she won't hear all those annoying high pitched sounds...".

With this, I scheduled an appointment at Doernbecher Children's Hospital with an audiologist. I had no idea what to expect from our hour long visit. It was fascinating! The sound proof room, the hook-ups in ear and out of ear, and the computer screens full of data left me with wonder.

Liv's audiologist was full of humor, silliness, and the utmost care. I don't recall what she had told Olivia, but it sure got her to giggle!

Liv was able to feel the squishy-ness of the sensors before they were inserted into her ear to test her eardrum's movements. 

We entered the sound proof room, where Liv was hooked up in both ears to register her ability to not only hear sounds, but the voice of her audiologist, who was in another room watching her (and me) respond to the stimuli. She held a clicker in her hand which indicated when the sound reached each ear. I learned very quickly just how severe her hearing loss was with high pitched input. It actually made me wince!

I had been sitting in a chair behind her through most of the test, but wanted to see her reactions. When she couldn't hear as well, she would move forward in her seat. These natural body cues we have are so ingrained, even when they won't help us in an isolated environment such as this. Her eyes would skew to one side to increase her concentration and she would even lick her lips (this is her "I'm totally in the moment" body language signal).

We learned after her test that she cannot hear  "s", "th", "f", and "k" out of her left ear unless in a very low frequency. Thankfully, her right ear compensates for this loss of range. Am I worried? Hell yes. What if this is degenerative? At this point, a hearing aid won't be of any help and I have this gut ache knowing there's nothing we can currently do. I know it's not the end of the world; that many parents struggle with conditions that vastly outweigh what Liv experiences. However, as parents, we all feel this skip in the routine, the trip on the sidewalk, the tumbling feeling as we lose control.

So, I ask you, reader, what life events have you felt a loss of control over? How do you work through them? This is what we do as caretakers of the next generation and it's freaking hard. 

Keep on keeping on...


Gardening with siblings (oy!) | Portland Documentary Family Photographer

My daughter loves to garden. It goes beyond choosing plants and deciding where they will be placed in our garden beds: she loves the feel of soil and breaking up the roots in her agile fingers. 

This season, I somehow got my son out to help plant. I'm sure he saw it as a chore, which might be why the afternoon ended with pointing fingers, water being thrown, and lots of screaming from the girl.

Olivia was so excited to plant the seeds that came from Grandpa Walt's farm. Two different types of peas, carrots, beets, cilantro, and dill were strewn on freshly tilled garden boxes, while we found places for kale, chard, and fennel starts that we purchased from the local nursery.

This might have been the start of the chaos. Once garden tools are thrown with such disgust, you know things are about to get real.

Yep, that's Liv's "I hate you" face. Carter had just thrown water all over her leg and sandals which threw her into a full on tizzy. So much for a peaceful day of gardening and being outdoors!

Does your family like to garden? Do you have moments where you have to stop the laughter because one kid is beyond reasoning and the other has pushed the limits? Every.single.day. at our house!

Head on overand see what my friend, Margaret Albaugh, is sharing of trampoline adventures. We’re lucky to have a amazing family photographer in Spokane!

Want to get some of these crazy faces for your family album? Get in touch with me and let's make magic happen!